How absurd it is to have adults criticize you on your life choices. What college are you going to? What are you majoring in? How dare you not be a doctor/lawyer/engineer/triple threat?
What's worst is being criticized by people you have never met until today. Seriously people, if I wanted such professions I might as well crawl into a cave and evade civilization for 837459234 years. It's just not me.
Sometimes, I wonder who it is who creates the "Asian" stereotype. It is highly plausible that the major contributors are the older generations of the same ethnicities. How depressing it must be to be constrained under such expectations.